Navigating the First Date: Dos and Don’ts for a Safe and Fun Experience.
You’re on the date, and things are going well. Here’s what to keep in mind to make it a success while prioritizing your safety:
DO:
– Take the lead: As the questioner, you’re in charge of steering the conversation. Ask open-ended questions to get meaningful responses.
– Stay enigmatic: Leave some things to be discovered. Don’t reveal too much too soon. A mystery provokes interest.
– Stay alert: Keep an eye on your surroundings and your date’s behavior.
-Be present: Engage in conversation and show interest in getting to know them.
DON’T:
– Don’t overshare: Keep some personal details private for now. Trying to impress your date with all your achievements is unnecessary. The attraction is already there since you’re on a date. The goal is to have fun.
– Don’t feel like you need to answer everything: It’s okay to say “I’d rather not say” or “Let’s talk about something else.”
– Don’t let the conversation stall: Prepare some questions in advance to keep things flowing.
– Don’t pry or get too personal: Respect boundaries and let things unfold naturally.
Safety Tips:
– Keep your phone handy: Have it on you and easily accessible if you need to call someone.
– Sit in a visible spot: Choose a table or spot where you can see and be seen.
– Don’t leave your drink unattended: Keep an eye on your drink at all times.
– Trust your instincts: If you feel uncomfortable, it’s okay to wrap up the date. Of course in an ideal word chivalrous men will drive a lady home and even pick her up but it’s not wise to reveal your home address to someone you essentially do not know.
By staying enigmatic, you can pique their interest and keep them curious. It’s about balance – be engaging, but don’t reveal too much too soon. Stay safe, be yourself, and enjoy the experience.